Our natural state of being, as one with Soul, is a harmonious state of Love, in which the only feelings are of continuous peace & bliss. Therefore if we are feeling any feeling other than peace & bliss, we have got out of balance somewhere . This is due to our conditioned & faulty thinking, which emerges as tolerations, needs & limiting beliefs. Using our emotional intelligence equips us to identify the message that Soul is sending us through these feelings so we can rectify our thinking & thus move always towards love. Peace be with you.